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Monday, September 8, 2008

The Four Agreements.

I had a realization last night that I had evolved into someone completely different than I was 10 or so years ago. A deeper, more compassionate and enlightened woman. This has happened through a combination of hard times and reading great books like, The Four Agreements for personal growth. I have lived by these positive, common sense rules in this book as well as having a close relationship with God. I thought that I would share them with you. The following text on this post is courtesy of The Four Agreements. Enjoy, Heidi
1. Be Impeccable with your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the Word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your Word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don’t Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don’t Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

1 comment:

Millie said...

A very insightful post Heidi. These are good tenets to use in life. I think if you can't be true to yourself, no point in rolling out of bed every morning!
Millie ^_^